Speed dating event penang
So the event I went to was held in a steamboat restaurant. Most girls there are in their late-twenties to early-thirties, with a few older ones. So my short informative article has come to an end.
Guys are generally 30 and above, with mid-thirties being the most prevalent bracket. Overall it was quite decent, if you are above 30 and wish to find a partner I would endorse it as a viable method of acquiring one. I did none of that asking/talking about career and hobbies crap. The basic idea is not to make the women put in the effort to get what they want from you.
The usual conversation is not that very interesting as the time is too short, it goes somewhat on these lines:1. In this stage I would advise one to prepare to describe one's career in a few brief sentences in a way that conveys confidence and professionalism. Everyone talks about outdoor activities like hiking and what not which I found really boring (I wanted to say that I'm one of the best Starcraft 2 players in Malaysia but refrained). Since I did not expect to date anyone there anyway due to the age gap I simply made jokes and did psychological tests and what not, but if you wish to establish an image as one who is marriage material then this would be best to use in moderation. The girls mostly dressed up decently but some guys really really wear ugly stuff arrghh. "Hmmm, I bet the guy is telling about his career and hobbies, and the girls pretends to listen carefully as to not appear to be rude, LOL"There are many ways to go out of the script and be creative and interesting for a change.
Droning on is really really boring, if I have to hear more about PHP programming I will kill somebody. Still, saying you like some sport is good I SUPPOSE. During this moving around we also exchanged contacts, then after the whole thing finished everybody has to write down their five choices, and if you choose someone and that person also chooses you then you will get a notification from the organizers later on. The onus is to connect to her emotions, hence since it's just a game, it's best not to take the women all too seriously.
Yes, the truth is disgusting (like how the women will evaluate your earning ability), but I'd rather have the truth rather than participate in the adolescent mindgames malaysian girls play. previously a guy joined that speed dating pays over rm1000 ...meets a girl, then breaks up, and that rm1000 is NOT REFUNDABLE..he had to pay another rm800 for 2nd speed dating...i was like wtf when i read that in lyn forum....
There's no problem if you know how to take control of the situation. Or point to another women and just flatly tell the one sitting in front of you that the other girl is hot or dresses better.
I will now share my experience here, hopefully it may prove useful for guys and girls a little older than myself. The first thing to note is that for guys my age (mid-twenties), going is pretty much a waste of time as all the girls are going to be older than you.The onus is to connect to her emotions, hence since it's just a game, it's best not to take the women all too ..rm100 only?? previously a guy joined that speed dating pays over rm1000 ...meets a girl, then breaks up, and that rm1000 is NOT REFUNDABLE..he had to pay another rm800 for 2nd speed dating...i was like wtf when i read that in lyn forum....