Hints successful speed dating
Since the women will be meeting many men, you’ll want to make a memorable first impression.This is the perfect time to stand out from the crowd by using your sense of humor and teasing her a bit.Three minutes can feel like an eternity with a snooze of a date, or a snap of the finger when you have chemistry. So maybe you won’t get to have an in-depth conversation about the origin of the universe, but you can do better than awkwardly shifting and asking your date about their day. Sure, you should be prepared and comfortable to ask questions to your match. Listen to their answers and let the conversation flow smoothly from what they have to say instead of proceeding with a pre-determined script.You can also learn a lot by observing the way they speak, their body language, and whether they maintain eye contact.Does she feel bored or awkward when talking to you, or does she feel happy, excited and attracted? One of the best things about speed dating is that if you’re not feeling it with a particular woman, your ‘date’ with her will only last a few minutes anyway.
You don’t want to waste the opportunity on acting like someone else.
Even if you’re not attracted to the woman you’re talking with and spot someone more striking a few tables over, don’t keep glancing over at the other woman. Women rarely attend these events by themselves and that gorgeous gal you’ve been eyeing, might turn out to be the friend of the girl you’re ignoring.